Mistress Marie March 2, at 9: You need to avoid using oil based lubes. For this reason I highly recommend considering the toys made by Square Peg as they are made with high grade silicone and when cared for properly are virtually indestructible. You would not believe how strong tempered glass actually is. Proper cleaning of anal toys is essential to ensure health and avoiding sharing any blood born diseases like HIV and Hepatitis C. Jelly and silicone ones will fucking hurt in the morning.
You can use any sort of lube.
Based on that I'd recommend a tempered glass plug with silicone lube. Jelly and silicone ones will fucking hurt in the morning. Sunday, March 2, Butt plug while sleeping. Reason for that is that while playing, your spincter will stretch to accomodate the large size, but when you stop playing and leave the plug in, the muscle will slowly go back to the smaller diameter of the butt plug's "neck". I can still hold an enema while I brush my teeth.