I was pleasantly surprised that it didn't. Once I was okay with the idea of losing my virginity to someone I wouldn't be staying with forever, it didn't take long for me to feel truly ready for sex. No, people do not always bleed. I also realized that sex was awesome. Please be inclusive with question phrasing. And oh yea to the chick that started this topic.
I've always been physically active climbing trees, dancing, playing Dance Dance Revolution, running, etcso I'm partially convinced that being in shape and healthy helps out when it comes to sex.
Grow your Grades Replies: And it was rarely, if ever, depicted in the sitcoms and films that our parents banned us from watching because we were too young. If you're already doing other sexual stuff, then by the time you actually have sex you'll know what does it for him and what doesn't, and it's kinda obvious what you have to do when it actually gets to the sex part. It didn't hurt, but I basically felt nothing. I was considering maybe taking a muscle relaxer so that there are less factors adding to the pain