Hi Lonnie, The key here is to keep trying it. While the man is lying on his back, he can simply thrust up and down. Leave petals on her pillow and guide her gently to the bed to make love to her. Many men find their penis is bent uncomfortably if their partner is facing towards their feet - in fact, it may not even be possible for you to insert your penis into her if it points straight up towards your chest when it's erect. Think of it as grinding against his pubic bone. Leave little notes around the house telling her how much you love her.
But what about the emotional side of it?
The great thing about Cowgirl is that you are now the one in control which can be really fun if your man is usually the one on top and calling the shots. T ake a shower or bath together. Sexual intercourse can open up a man to his feelings — dominance and tenderness or a sense of his own masculinity during man on top sex, a sense of acceptance and love for his partner during woman on top sex, possibly feelings of male power during rear entry sex, and maybe a gentler, more loving side of his nature during side-by-side sex…and so on, and so forth. In one of the best sex positions, the one on the left of the bottom row above, the woman can give both herself and her man great pleasure if she squeezes her legs together and rotates her hips in a circular motion - indeed, sex in this position can send her man into ecstasy! Resting will allow your sexual energy to accumulate, so that when you do finally go for your orgasms, they may well be much more intense than they would otherwise be. So show your enjoyment! It's hard, perhaps, for men to appreciate how powerful woman on top sexual positions are for women, since men are accustomed to taking most of the power and dominance in sex most of the time.