Encourage her about how amazing she is as a mom. In that case just start with the simple things like dishes. You wanted her and she wanted you. They want to hold hands. Others were told by people "who knew best" what to expect or deserve and woke up one day disillusioned because the people "who knew best" were wrong. More serious, persistent sleep problems like insomnia -- which can be short- or longterm and is characterized by trouble falling asleep, staying asleep or both -- can take a particularly heavy toll.
It was like he got tired of me or something.
Motherhood is exhausting, emotionally draining and stressful. If you want to get your wife in the mood you need to love her more. It is these women who suck the life out of good men,with their selfish sight. Cook dinner, change diapers and kiss bruised knees. Giving them advice to submit to their husbands nonsexual whims and meet his sexdrive head on daily.